Why Grace Is Still the Most Radical Thing We Preach

Titus isn’t just a letter—it’s a blueprint for queer leadership in real life.
It says: yes, hold people accountable. Yes, teach what’s true.
But don’t forget where you came from—and don’t lose the tenderness that grace planted in you along the way.

Queer people of faith have spent years being disqualified by church systems that prize performance over presence.

Titus says stop and reminds us of grace.

It invites us to imagine leadership that flows from humility, integrity, and embodiment.
It reminds us that you don’t have to tone down your queerness to be taken seriously.

In fact, your story—the one with the scars, the laughter, the quiet resilience—that’s exactly what makes you ready.

And the wildest part?
It’s grace that makes it all possible.

Not hustle. Not shame. Not fear.

Grace. Real grace. The kind that re-parents you, reroutes you, and reminds you that God doesn’t call you to be useful—just to be faithful.

Reflection

When have you felt pressure to lead like someone else’s idea of “holy”?

What would leadership look like for you if it flowed from grace, not guilt?

How might your queerness be part of what makes you a better guide for others?

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